To gain all you must lose much

It is only through loss that we gain in experience, empathy and understanding. This loss could be grief or through attachments.

To know that animals, friends and family who have left us behind are somewhere closer to us than they ever were, is comforting. They are only a thought away and watching us frequently with a care that was never applied before.

Lose fear.

Lose attachments.

Lose anger.

Lose jealousies. Lose power-seeking.

To lose a a few things of this world means a gain in our experiences to come whether on this earth or in the hereafter.

POWER

You do not have to submit to the power of others.

You can be free-thinking and independent as long as your actions are in harmony with the expectation of others and fit in with the natural law as laid down by all spiritual beings working together.

Expressing power yourself without subjugating others to your wish is something necessary for confidence in your own soul and its achievements.

Believe and find your way

It is a matter of acknowledging that there is something, a force an energetic love that is bigger than any of us…. that causes and rides the world. Without a belief in this we are lost or indifferent souls groping our way through the daily difficulties AND some of us were born to lead lives of an horrendous nature but we have to believe that that is part of the great plan.

That must have been chosen by the sufferers … to develop a great deal by experiencing that awful life. Maybe many of us have gone through that in a past life.

Some of us are riding the wave of hope and some comfort and may we be able to reach down and push up pthers to ride that wave alongside us.

These facts, maybe, make sense of such positivity and negativity in this world.

LOVE

Love should not be dependent upon.

Love is the giving out of something which has first matured within you. Love is not expressed by owning or curtailing others.

Love is not the blissful unreality of falling in love. That is nature’s bbasis for ensuring survival of the species.

Love is the subsequent allowing of freedoms of our spouses and partners to be expressed. That new love is a maturing and flourishing of self and partner.

Love is the willingness to put aside projects for the self in order to provide nurturing of offspring while allowing them to leave a secure nest when they need that independence.

Love is caring for the needs of frieends and neighbours while maintaining one’s own centre.

Love is the incredible loyalty offered to us by our pets. Love is what drives the Spirit World.

Love is enduring.

GUILT

Make reparations, if an option.

Concerning older guilt, put it down to a mistake which all humans make to a lesser or greater degree.

A mistake is part of our journey of learning which is why we are here in this realm.

Ask the Great Spirit or your guides or helpers in spirit to help you deal withb the guilt or to give you a sign that a solution is possible.

The solution may be peace of mind for the perpetrator or the victim.

If it does not seem possible to eradicate this sense of guilt, place it in the hands of the Great Spirit.

This is not a state to last for an eternity. It can be resolved during your lifetime or failing that, shortly in the hereafter.

LIFE LESSONS

May we all take on that extra battle in life and not just rely on those five senses . Dealing with only those five senses leads to all the ills in the world.

When we go we cannot take with us any accumulation of power and riches but we need to know that our soul has become enriched by all the joys and miseries of a human existence.

So, add the multisensory dimension to your already functioning five senses.

Those who do this are showing awareness of the fact that there is an afterlife, the fact that we should act from an inner feeling of deep love and empathy.